Are tantrums normal at 21 months?
Toddler temper tantrums are natural child behavior. These emotional toddler meltdowns result from unmet needs or desires. They are more likely to appear in toddlers because that’s when they start to learn that they’re separated from their parents and want to seek independence, and yet they cannot.
How do I deal with my 21 month old’s temper tantrums?
So try to support them by trying the following.
- Trying to understand why they’re having a tantrum. Are they tired?
- Distracting them.
- Don’t give in.
- Don’t panic.
- Handle tantrums based on your child’s needs.
- Help toddlers to understand their feelings.
- Praising good behaviour.
- Giving control over little things.
Why is my 21 month old so aggressive?
Aggression (hitting, kicking, biting, etc.) usually peaks around age two, a time when toddlers have very strong feelings but are not yet able to use language effectively to express themselves. Toddlers also don’t have the self-control to stop themselves from acting on their feelings.
Can a temper tantrum be harmful to toddler?
Most temper tantrums are not violent affairs but do involve lots of tears and yelling. Rest assured, your toddler is not going to be harmed by a little crying and all that yelling may yield a bit of hoarseness but not much more.
When should I worry about temper tantrums?
Tantrums usually last between two and 15 minutes. Violent tantrums that last longer than 15 minutes may be a sign of a more serious problem. If your child has lengthy, violent outbursts, talk to your healthcare provider.
What do you do when your 20 month old throws a tantrum?
How to Address Toddler Temper Tantrums
- Try ignoring the situation.
- Handle aggressive behavior immediately.
- Refrain from yelling.
- Let your child be angry.
- In some cases, give in to the tantrum (within reason).
- Rely on brief, easy commands.
- Create a distraction.
- Give them a hug.